🌿 Growth Hurts When You Outgrow the Room

July 17, 2025

Hello Family,

Today’s message is a gentle reminder for anyone who feels like growth is making them more isolated, not more connected.

If you’ve noticed that healing is changing how you relate to people...

You’re not alone.

Let’s talk about it.

🫅 Why You Can’t Unsee What You’ve Healed

Once you start healing...

You gain something that changes everything:

Awareness.

You can suddenly see:

  • The unspoken wounds in people’s words

  • The emotional reactions hiding unprocessed pain

  • The trauma loops playing out in real time

Not because you’re judging.

But because you understand.

You’ve been there.

And now you’re not.

🌌 The Pain of New Vision

It’s not that you think you’re better.

It’s that you now feel what’s true.

And that truth comes with a cost:

🔹 You can’t tolerate dysfunction that you used to excuse

🔹 You feel drained around people who haven't faced themselves

🔹 You can’t unknow what you've awakened to

This part of the journey is quiet.

Unspoken.

Sometimes lonely.

But deeply necessary.

🪮 What You Must Remember

Healing doesn’t mean fixing others.

It means:

🔹 Letting people be where they are

🔹 Honoring your own boundaries

🔹 Accepting that some connections may fall away

Growth doesn’t always look like gaining more people.

Sometimes it means walking lighter, with fewer, but deeper bonds.

🌟 Final Word

You’re not losing people.

You’re losing tolerance for misalignment.

And that’s okay.

Because every step away from what drains you is a step toward what restores you.

You’re not too much.

You’re just becoming more of who you really are.

Keep going.

Talk soon ✨

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